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悄悄告诉你

女孩A正在和男孩愉快的对话,可是突然间女孩B当着男孩的面前和女孩A说悄悄话。还时不时防备着男孩来偷听,用着她那鄙夷的眼神防范着。

我不知道大家对这样的状况时,如果你是当时的那位男孩,你会怎样想?是应该继续保持沉默,而让它一而再,再而三地发生?还是直接强烈表示不满,要说悄悄话滚到一旁去?一向来对悄悄话我都没什么好感,尤其是很明显是那种针对自己而说的。我不是介意你说我的坏话,可是你大可以大声地说出来,在不然就滚到一旁说去。有时候我不直接表示我的不满是因为我顾虑到大家天天见面不想要增添尴尬。

还有一种就是那种敏感到令人吃不消的人,这种人平时给人的形象就是那种很“玩得”的人,很可惜这不是表示他自己很大方。这种人可以很开心的那人家来开玩笑却永远不允许别人利用他自己来开玩笑,come on,这个世界上那里有这样的交易?你不要人家开你玩笑,那么好,你就不要去取笑人家,你取笑人家你就要预备终有一天会发生在你自己的身上。在不然就是当大家一轮嘴反对他的意见的时候突然间一下子爆炸,原因是刚刚在不久之前受了气(可是大家都在很理智,而且很有条理的讨论一件事情,不是嬉皮笑脸)。你总不能够因为自己的理由并不是最好而气全世界都反对你的吧?当时在场的我真得很恨不得一巴掌赏过去。

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Depend,
I will try to join them
if Girl-B dont want let me know
then I will just ignore them for awhile and let them finish
if they take too long then I will feel unhappy
because Girl-B is totally not respect to me at all
I am talking to Girl-A, and she break into us and kick me out

For me
if you want to chat with the ppl someone chatting with ,
at least you have to respect the other ,respect yourself

and also , whenever people play a joke on you, please think about what you did before
if you did samething before , then dont be unhappy or angry,
except the thing they joking is your weak point that will make you unhappy,
if so , let your friend know that it is not something can joke with you.

To SmartGuys :

  1. his EQ is good , he never can not control his emotion
  2. I think you not really know him much or you are not at relationship control cause you show out your immature from your word
  3. he write out his comment here is trying to get comment from others, not to attack the Girl-B , dont misunderstand please
  4. Maybe Girl-B will feel sad if she saw this , but we learning all the time, I think she should know that someone will feel unhappy about what had she did, then learn how to avoid same thing happen again , the mature way to slove problem (hopefully after she read this , she is not sad and angry , we alwasy make mistake and we learning to do no mistake)
  5. I am one of his friend and i dont think most of his friend dont like him , maybe is only your misunderstand to him. If you trying to be his friend , then try to know more about him, maybe what you heard is only from one way but not from everyone.

ps:

  1. Human also make mistake because of misunderstanding or dont know much about other
  2. Please always think before you speak
  3. Please always think that maybe the one who speak is not mean to hurt you
  4. Learn From mistake and try to improve yourself
author
AhThir
date
2006-03-19
time
18:08:56

需要伪装吗?
那来的那么多听说?我觉得我们是认识的,至少也有一面之缘,真希望我们不曾认识。
我承认我不很gentlemen
我也承认我不很友善
不过至少我不喜欢在人家面前说悄悄话
不想再跟你争论什么
你要说什么就尽管说吧
还有,批评我的时候请注意错别字,这一类的文章通常比较惹我注意,所以我会只字只字看……

author
Jeffrey04
date
2006-03-19
time
12:45:27

当我读你的文章的时后,我感到你是一个飞常小气的男孩。其实你应该不要听那B女孩跟A女孩说话。你是男的作到像女孩一样。如我是你的话我一定会洲开。我听我的朋友谈到你,说你是一个不gentalmen的男孩。可能是我的朋有一遍之齿。可是当我读到你的文章是我真的feel到你是一个不那友善的人。和我觉的你丢我们男人的架。还有你有没有想过那女孩可能没有说你的坏话??哈哈这可能之是你单方面想的东西。还有如你真的不想和她作朋友你应该跟她说,而不是在这说她的不是。请成熟一点,我想你的皮气也不会好到那你。你说朋友应该互相respect对方,你有没有想过你有respect你的朋友吗?其实我不应该说你的不是,可是当我读到时,真觉得你很不对。朋友是靠原份的,不是你说要就有的。你说

“还有一种就是那种敏感到令人吃不消的人,这种人平时给人的形象就是那种很“玩得”的人,很可惜这不是表示他自己很大方。这种人可以很开心的那人家来开玩笑却永远不允许别人利用他自己来开玩笑,come on,这个世界上那里有这样的交易?”

我想你也不是很大方的人,如你是的话就不会在这说和写她的不是,你还说想一巴打她很明显你是一个很不会control emotional的人。我想你很难和朋友合作。对不对??听说你是一个很八卦的男孩。。。哈哈难怪别人会说你的坏话。。幸好我不是你的朋友,我想如你的B女孩看到的话你说她的不是,她一定很sad。Anywhere她不是我的朋友,我想有很多你的朋友一定很不like你的。好了我也不多说了,在一次。。我希望你会成熟一点,你是男孩子。

author
SmartGuys
date
2006-03-19
time
03:40:05

take it easy means?
but then friends are supposed to respect each other, don’t you think so?

author
Jeffrey04
date
2006-03-18
time
00:17:55

Take it easy lah? Friends mah

author
Kuan
date
2006-03-17
time
23:15:31